Monday 14 November 2011

Kids Define Love





A group of 4 to 8 year-olds were asked the question, “What does love mean?” Below are their answers. So pure and true. If you have your definition of love to add, please comment!

“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.” Rebecca- age 8  

“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.” Billy age 4  

“Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.” Karl age 5  

“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.” Chrissy age 6  

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.” Terri age 4  
“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.” Danny age 7  
“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss” Emily age 8  
“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.” Bobby age 7 
“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,” Nikka age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka’s on this planet)  
“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.” Noelle age 7  
“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.” Tommy age 6  
“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.” Cindy age 8
“My mommy loves me more than anybody . You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.” Clare age 6  
“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.” Elaine-age 5  
“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.” Chris age 7  
“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” Mary Ann age 4  
“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” Lauren age 4  
“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” Karen age 7  
“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.” Mark age 6  
“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.” Jessica age 8  
And the final one Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.
The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, “Nothing, I just helped him cry”









Tuesday 8 November 2011

When It’s Time for Goodbyes




Its never easy to let someone goto say goodbyeand be on your own. We are never prepared for departuresneedless to say, a permanent one at that. No matter how much you know that its going to be the end, or when someone says its gonna be okay if it ever endsstill, watching people go remains to be heartbreaking. Its like watching someone walk away with their backs on you, and you know that youre never gonna see their faces againonly memories will remain.


Someone once said that its not on how people died that we should remember, but on how people lived. Upon watching the movie, My Sisters Keeper, Annas last words before the closing credits bore a significant message to me. She said, Once upon a time, I thought I was put on earth to save my sister. In the end, I couldnt do it. I realized now, that wasnt the pointthe point was I had a sister. She was fantastic! Beginnings and endings are just part of the storyhow we were born, or how well ever die is just part of life. What matters is that, we lived.

The movie was about Kate Fitzgerald who was diagnosed with Leukemiaor should I say about Anna Fitzgeraldher sisters keeperor maybe both. When Kate was first diagnosed, her doctor advised her parents that she needed a match to save her life. Anna was genetically conceived to be her match. All of Annas life, she has been donating her parts to her sisterfrom the moment she was born, for eleven years. She has been giving Kate her blood, granulocytes, bone marrows, etc. until one day she came to a lawyer and said she no longer wanted to give any of her parts to her sistereven if she knows it could kill Kate. She said, she wanted control over her own body and wanted a medical emancipation”—or is it really? Anna knew she was born for a reasonand that is to save her sisters life. I guess all of us were put on earth for a reason too. There are no coincidences, nor accidents in life. Maybe the only difference is that Anna knew it too soon unlike the rest of us.

Kateshe was so young when she learned that her life is on the edge of a cliff. Yet, she battled it through and stayed a little bit longer. She saw her sister grow and Anna watched over her and took care of her. She fell in love with a fellow patient, and felt broken too when he died without saying goodbye after their prom. Shes still alive but dead was lurking over her lifeand her family too. Her mom has been taking care of her, staying by her side all the time, and gave up everything to fight the battle with her. I could say the same for her dad, and brother, and sister, and the rest of their family. I wonder what it feels like seeing your family like thatdoing everything to make you feel betterto somehow make everything seem normal even if everyone knows it isntor at least make everything okay. Kate has been fighting for her lifebut everyone gets tired along the way, including her. But she couldnt seem to give upfor her mom, for her family.

It was Kate who asked Anna to go to the lawyer. It turned out that she no longer wanted to have any more surgeries. She wanted to free Anna and allow her to live a life outside the shadows of being her sisters life-saver. That was the last thing she asked from her sister.

Kate died. Her last wish was to see the beachto be with her family at the beach. It was the moment in the movie wherein youll realize how bitterly sweet life could be. She had a wonderful familyshe has been given all the love that somehow made her life a little bit longerand happybut thats it. In the end, when your time is up, you have to go. She died with the last person on her sideher mom. They had to let go, and move forward.

Someone once asked, What will you do today if you know youre going to die tomorrow? In Paulo Coelhos The Alchemist he said, To die tomorrow was no worse than dying on any other day so why does the last day be any different from the rest? Make your life count, even when your days are numbered live each day like its your lastbecause in the end, youll never know when its timeyoull never know when its the last. Dying is always scaryand the hardest part is leaving the people you love behind...but the best part is, knowing you made a difference in someone elses life while youre alive. 




My Sister's Keeper is a 2009 American drama film directed by Nick Cassavetes. Based on Jodi Picoult's novel.
Film released on June 26, 2009.
Cast:
Cameron Diaz as Sara Fitzgerald
Alec Baldwin as Campbell Alexander
Abigail Breslin as Anna Fitzgerald
Sofia Vassilieva as Kate Fitzgerald
Jason Patric as Brian Fitzgerald
Evan Ellingson as Jesse Fitzgerald
Heather Wahlquist as Aunt Kelly
Luke Wilson as Edward Alexander
Elizabeth Daily as Nurse Susan
Lin Shaye as Nurse Adele
Joan Cusack as Judge De Salvo
Thomas Dekker as Taylor Ambrose
Jeffrey Markle as Dr. Wayne
Emily Deschanel as Dr. Farquad
Amit Khanduja as Chief Surgeon
Olivia Hancock as Young Kate Fitzgerald

Monday 7 November 2011

I Will Stay


Disclaimer: photo not mine.

As time flies by
Even when the leaves wither
The winds blew its vigor
I’ll be by your side
Even when the colors turn grey
Life would still be gay
Because you’re there to bring hue to life everyday
Even when life seems weary
And some things don’t come by easily
I’ll be by your side
In life
Eventually
Some stays, some goes
Still
I’ll be by your side
Wherever the wind may take us
We’ll still be together
I’ll always be by your side
forever…

Sunday 6 November 2011

House Rules

I'll be posting this on my wall
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The virtues we learn from our homes reverberates throughout our existence. The most important values, most often than not, we achieve through our families.

As they say, we all have our own homes... it is where our heart is. Wherever we go, and wherever we may be, we always go back home... and we simply remember these rules as we carry on.


Wednesday 2 November 2011

Mornings @ the Hill

The beauty of a sunrise reflected upon the waters...it's 6:00 in the morning and the sun arises, fogs still covering the land...warmth of the sun feels just right. Early morning at Lignon Hill...illuminates promises of hope as the rest of the day would soon unfold...

The light of the sun lights up the world...brings color to flowers and trees...the light gives life...reflects the beauty of the soul...

Nature's beauty is astonishing...as stewards, we cater to them...ensure to maintain thine beauty and calm...the peace it gives, is peace from our God...

photos taken: Oct. 20, 2011